TOGEATHER FOREVER / FAMILY FLISSIKOWSKI (LOVED ONES )
VALENTINES DAY, YOU ARE BOTH LOVED AND MISSED FORE / FAMILY FLISSIKOWSKI (LOVED ONES )
VALENTINES DAY IN HEAVEN
MICHAEL AND BERNARD
The wings of an angel come from God above, and opened wide are wings of love. The wings of an angel to help us cope, bring peace, love, faith and hope. The wings of an angel to comfort thee, but God's sweet love is what we see. The wings of an angel I'll pray for you, that the wings of love will see you through...
An Angel is a Brother...
Who's sent from up above, who comes to you from heaven
a gift from God with love.
Whose smile is like the sun that shines,
that warms your heart you see.
God not only sent a brother He sent a friend for me.
I hold something so precious its value is worth more than gold,
for this is the memories we share it can't be bought or sold.
God made a wonderful brother, and He gave that dear brother to me.
You'll always be an angel, my angel you'll always be...
Whispers
Your name whispers within my heart, that’s where you’ll always be.
Like the whispers of the wind, that is calling out to me.
The love that echoes silently, embraces me each day.
You’re like the wind beneath my wings, that God has sent my way.
The love we share is always here, its been there from the start.
Because the whispers of your name, will be forever in my heart
A Kiss
As we go through life not knowing, living from day to day.
If good-byes that we hear are last words that we say.
And when we lose that loved one, and were filled with pain inside.
That's when our Lord and Savior, is there to be our guide.
He sends to us his angels, that come from up above.
In their wings they carry, the one that's missed and loved.
There's something special for you, to stop the tears from this.
And when you feel a gentle breeze, it's your loved one with a Kiss.
So when you're feeling lonely and need a Kiss today,
to feel a breeze upon your cheek a Kiss is what you pray...
I LOVE MY BROTHERS / PAT UREN (SISTER)
TWO OF OURS
MICHAEL AND BERNARDS DAD HIS ANNIVERSARY 24 TH JANUARY 2008 / FAMILY FLISSIKOWSKI (LOVED ONES )
DADS ANNIVERSARY IN HEAVEN 24TH JANUARY 2008
YOU HAVE BERNARD WITH YOU THIS YEAR DAD,
ETERNAL REST GRANT UNTO YOU ALL.
MAY YOU REST IN PEACE FOREVER,
AND OUR DEAR MUM
WE LOVE AND MISS YOU ALL SO MUCH XXX
I LOVE MY BROTHERS AND SO DOES JESUS / Pat Uren (SISTER)
The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not be in want. He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, he restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name’s sake. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.
OUR BROTHERS / PAT UREN (SISTER)
THIS IS SO TRUE / PAT UREN (SISTER)
Too Often
Too often we don't realize What we have until it is gone. Too often we wait too late to say "I'm sorry - I was wrong." Sometimes it seems we hurt the ones We hold dearest to our hearts; And we allow foolish things To tear our lives apart.
Far too many times we let Unimportant things into our minds; And then it's usually too late To see what made us blind.
So be sure that you let people know How much they mean to you. Take the time to say the words Before your time is through.
Be sure that you appreciate Everything you've got; And be thankful for the little things in life that mean a lot.
FOR ALL THE TIMES WE DIDNT
TELL YOU HOW PROUD WE WERE,
AND ALL THE TIMES WE DIDNT APPRECIATE
ALL THAT YOU DID FOR US,
WE ARE
I FEEL YOUR PRESENCE NEAR ME / Pat Uren (SISTER)
When I shall come to the end of my way, When I shall rest at the close of life's day, When "Welcome home" I shall hear Jesus say, Oh, that will be sunrise for me. . . . When in His beauty I see the great King, Join with the ransomed His praises to sing, When I shall join them my tribute to bring, Oh, that will be sunrise for me. . . When life is over and daylight is passed, In heaven's harbor my anchor is cast, When I see Jesus my Savior at last, Oh, that will be sunrise for me. . . Sunrise tomorrow, sunrise tomorrow, Sunrise in glory is waiting for me; Sunrise tomorrow, sunrise tomorrow, Sunrise with Jesus for eternity.
I Watch The Sunrise
I watch the sunrise lighting the sky, Casting its shadows near. And on this morning bright though it be, I feel those shadows near me. But you are always close to me Following all my ways. May I be always close to you Following all your ways, Lord I watch the sunlight shine through the clouds, Warming the earth below. And at the mid-day, life seems to say: I feel your brightness near me. For you are always . . . I watch the sunset fading away, Lighting the clouds with sleep. And as the evening closes its eyes, I feel your presence near me. For you are always . . . I watch the moonlight guarding the night, Waiting till morning comes. The air is silent, earth is at rest Only your peace is near me. Yes, you are always
THOUGHTS FOR THE NEW YEAR 2008, SO SAD WITHOUT YOU BOTH / PAT UREN (SISTER)
Beyond The Sunset
Beyond the sunset, O blissful morning. When with our Saviour heaven's begun. Earth's toiling ended, O glorious dawning Beyond the sunset when day is done. Beyond the sunset, no clouds will gather. No storms will threaten, no fears annoy. O day of gladness, O day unending. Beyond the sunset eternal joy.
Beyond the sunset, a hand will guide me, To God the Father whom I adore. His glorious presence, His words of welcome, Will be my portion on that fair shore. Beyond the sunset, O glad reunion, With our dear loved ones who've gone before, In that fair homeland we'll know no parting. Beyond the sunset forever more.
The Potter's Wheel
When you’re troubled and discouraged In the darkness of the night When obstruction clouds your vision And you just can't see the light. When life’s trials overcome you And you have nowhere to turn When you’ve reached the very bottom There are lessons you must learn.
For the clay is being molded It’s been twisted, pulled and tossed It’s been rolled and it’s been pounded Till the ego has been lost. He will put you through the furnace You’ll be tested to the brim Your life will be in pieces Till you give your soul to Him.
From blemish to perfection His hands will form the clay This human piece of rubble Must let God have His way. When you come to Him all battered In the form of mortal man When you cry to Him in mercy You will find the Potter’s hand.
He will grind you, mold and chisel The friction you will feel Till He gently carves and shapes you Upon the Potter’s wheel.
Journey to Heaven
I am going on a journey
To a place I long to go
A land that’s filled with angels
Where the peaceful valleys flow.
I have no need for luggage
So I plan to travel light
A first-class trip to heaven
It’s a non-returning flight.
There won’t be tears of sadness
Sweet blessings I will reap
A torch will burn eternal
And the soul doth never sleep.
I do not need an auto
There is no bus or train
My journey is predestined
And I won’t be back again.
No need for food or shelter
Everything I need is there
My home that lies in heaven
Is a joy beyond compare.
I am ready for my venture
Got the voucher in my hand
I’m bound for Zion glory
In that far-off distant land.
I am headed for that City
My flight was paid for me
To a land of peace and beauty
Just beyond the crystal sea.
I soon will have my ticket
There is no need to pack
On a one-way trip to heaven
And I won’t be coming back.
I'll Be Here
I cannot ease your aching heart, Nor take your pain away; But let me stay and take your hand And walk with you today. I'll listen when you need to talk, I'll wipe away your tears; I'll share your worries when they come, I'll help you face your fears.
I'm here and I will stand by you, On each hill you have to climb; So take my hand, let's face the world ... And live just one day at a time. You're not alone, for I'm still here, I'll go that extra mile; And when your grief is easier, I'll help you learn to smile! Promise Of Spring
The sky is dark and sullen The trees look so forlorn The days are short, a chill sets in A winter day is born. I yearn for spring so long ago A day spent in the park Among the blooming daffodil The wren and meadowlark. I long for gentle days of rain A warm breeze in the air The fragrance of a lilac tree A day so ever fair.
Beneath the dead decaying leaves A bud does wait anew To reach its arms up to the sky When winter days are through. Beyond the bitter winds that blow A breeze awaits to greet To bring in sun kissed golden rod And tender grass so sweet. Just as the winter fades away To this one hope I cling Our God, who gives the winter wind Will surely bring the spring.
Gifts From Heaven
A tiny golden butterfly Perched upon my sill His wings he fluttered gently To give my heart a thrill. On the wind I heard a song Sung with pure delight Trilled by a tiny bluebird Such a lovely sight!
Through my window drifted A fragrance oh so sweet From newly blooming flowers Came this lovely special treat. I'm touched by gentle breezes The sun warms my weary frame I feel the gentle raindrops I count them all the same. They are gifts to us from heaven To cheer us each new day Sent by someone special With love in everyway.
Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there, I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glint on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn rain. When you wake in the morning hush, I am the swift, uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circling flight. I am the soft starlight at night. Do not stand at my grave and weep. I am not there, I do not sleep. Do not stand at my grave and cry. I am not there, I did not die!
Do not stand at my grave and weep. I am not there, I do not sleep. I am the song that will never end. I am the love of family and friend. I am the child who has come to rest In the arms of the Father who knows him best. When you see the sunset fair, I am the scented evening air. I am the joy of a task well done. I am the glow of the setting sun. Do not stand at my grave and weep. I am not there, I do not sleep. Do not stand at my grave and cry. I am not there, I did not die!
Wings Of An Angel
The wings of an angel So pure and so white The wings of an angel Holding you tight.
The wings of an angel Caressing your skin The wings of an angel Keeping love within.
These wings from an angel Are my gift to you These wings from an angel Will help see you through.
A NEW YEAR BEGINS 1ST JANUARY 2008
MICHAEL AND BERNARD
IN MY HEART FOREVER
If Tomorrow Never Comes
If I knew it would be the last time That I'd see you fall asleep, I would tuck you in more tightly, And pray the Lord your soul to keep. If I knew it would be the last time That I'd see you walk out the door, I would give you a hug and kiss, And call you back for just one more
If I knew it would be the last time I'd hear your voice lifted up in praise, I would tape each word and action, And play them back throughout my days If I knew it would be the last time, I would spare an extra minute or two, To stop and say "I love you," Instead of assuming you know I do.
So just in case tomorrow never comes, And today is all I get, I'd like to say how much I love you, And I hope we never will forget. Tomorrow is not promised to anyone, Young or old alike, And today may be the last chance You get to hold your loved one tight.
So if you're waiting for tomorrow, Why not do it today? For if tomorrow never comes, You'll surely regret the day. That you didn't take that extra time For a smile, a hug, or a kiss, And you were too busy to grant someone, What turned out to be their one last wish.
So hold your loved ones close today, And whisper in their ear, That you love them very much, and You'll always hold them dear. Take time to say "I'm sorry," "Please forgive me," "thank you" or "it's okay". And if tomorrow never comes, You'll have no regrets about today
In The Valley
Sometimes life seems hard to bear, Full of sorrow, trouble, and woe It's then I have to remember That it's in the valleys I grow.
If I always stayed on the mountain top And never experienced pain, I would never appreciate God's love And would be living in vain.
I have so much to learn And my growth is very slow, Sometimes I need the mountain tops, But it's in the valleys I grow.
I do not always understand Why things happen as they do, But I am very sure of one thing. My Lord will see me through.
My little valleys are nothing When I picture Christ on the cross He went through the valley of death; His victory was Satan's loss.
Forgive me Lord, for complaining When I'm feeling so very low. Just give me a gentle reminder That it's in the valleys I grow.
Continue to strengthen me, Lord And use my life each day To share your love with others And help them find their way.
Thank you for valleys, Lord For this one thing I know The mountain tops are glorious But it's in the valleys I grow!
A NEW YEAR 1ST JANUARY 2008
IN MY HEART FOREVER
BLUE CHRISTMAS WITHOUT YOU BOTH / FAMILY FLISSIKOWSKI (LOVED ONES )
I'll have a blue Christmas without you I'll be blue thinking about you Decorations of red on a green Christmas tree Won't be the same if you're not here with me And when those blue snowflakes start falling That's when those blue memories start calling You'll be doin' all right, With your Christmas of white, But I'll have a blue, blue Christmas
BERNARDS FIRST CHRISTMAS IN HEAVEN / Pat Uren (SISTER)
My First Christmas In Heaven
I see the countless Christmas trees
around the world below
With tiny lights, like Heaven's stars,
reflecting on the snow
The sight is so spectacular,
please wipe away the tear
For I am spending Christmas
with Jesus Christ this year.
I hear the many Christmas songs
that people hold so dear
But the sounds of music can't compare
with the Christmas choir up here.
I have no words to tell you,
the joy their voices bring,
For it is beyond description,
to hear the angels sing.
I know how much you miss me,
I see the pain inside your heart
But I am not so far away,
We really aren't apart.
So be happy for me, dear ones,
You know I hold you dear.
And be glad I'm spending Christmas
with Jesus Christ this year.
I sent you each a special gift,
from my heavenly home above.
I sent you each a memory
of my undying love.
After all, love is a gift
more precious than pure gold.
It was always most important
in the stories Jesus told.
Please love and keep each other,
as my Father said to do.
For I can't count the blessing
or love He has for each of you.
So have a Merry Christmas
and wipe away that tear
Remember, I am spending Christmas
with Jesus Christ this year.
OUR ADVENT CANDLES FOR MICK AND BERNARD / FAMILY FLISSIKOWSKI (LOVED ONES )
THE ADVENT CANDLE BURNING FOR MY BROTHERS,
MICK AND BERNARD
Dear God,
In the height of our Advent walk,
grant us the courage to experience joy.
Joy in the face of apathy,
Joy in the face of sorrow,
Joy in the face of uncertainty.
Amen.
Dear God,
As we begin our Advent pilgrimage,
grant us the courage to hope.
Hope for your presence,
Hope for your peace,
Hope for your promise.
Amen.
Eternal Rest
Eternal rest grant unto them, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon them. May they rest in peace. Amen.
THE ROBIN AND THE HOLLY, / FAMILY FLISSIKOWSKI (LOVED ONES )
MICK AND BERNARD,
A LITTLE ROBIN,
WITH BIG FAITH,
The Legend Of The First Robin
One day, long ago, a little bird in Galilee saw a large crowd gathered around a Man carrying a heavy wooden cross. On the Man's head was a crown made from a thorn branch. The thorns were long and sharp. The little bird saw that the thorns were hurting the Man. It wanted to help Him, so it flew down and took the longest, sharpest thorn in its tiny beak.
The bird tugged and pulled until the thorn snapped from the branch. Then a strange thing happened. A drop of blood fell onto the bird's breast, staining it bright red.
The stain never went away. And so today the robin proudly wears a red breast, because it helped a Man named Jesus.
The Legend of Robin Redbreast
On that first Christmas, it is said, the night was wrapped in a bitter chill. The small fire in the stable was nearly out, and the Mother Mary worried that her baby would be cold. she turned to the animals about her and asked them for help.
"Could you blow on the embers," she asked the ox, "so the fire might continue to keep my son warm?"
But the ox lay sound asleep on the stable floor and did not hear her. Next, mary asked the donkey to breathe life back into the fire, but the sleeping donkey did not hear Mary either. Nor did the horse or sheep. She wondered what to do.
Suddenly, Mary heard a fluttering of little wings. Looking up, she saw a plain, brown-coloured little robin fly into the stall. This robin had heard Mary calling to the animals and had come to help her himself. he went over to the dying fire and flapped his wings hard.
His wings were like little bellows, huffing and puffing air onto the embers, until they glowed bright red again. He continued to fan the fire, singing all the while, until the ashes began to kindle.
With his beak, the robin picked up some fresh, dry sticks and tossed them into the fire. As he did, a flame suddenly burst forth and burned the little bird's breast a bright red. But the robin simply continued to fan the fire until it crackled brightly and warmed the entire stable. The Baby Jesus slept happily.
Mary thanked and praised the robin for all he had done. She looked tenderly at his red breast, burned by the flame, and said "From now on, let your red breast be a blessed reminder of your noble deed."
THE HOLLY AND THE ROBIN
SPECIAL MEMORIES
MICK AND BERNARD.
YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN OUR HEARTS.
REMEMBERING OUR BROTHERS, MICK AND BERNARD / FAMILY FLISSIKOWSKI (LOVED ONES )
Perhaps they are not
stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
No farewell words were spoken, no time to say goodbye, you were gone before we knew it, and only God knows why.
Death is Nothing
Death is nothing at all I have only slipped away into the next room I am I and you are you. Whatever we were to each other That we still are. Call me by my old familiar name Speak to me in the easy way which you always used Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes We enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me, Let my name be ever the household word that It always was. Let it be spoken without effort, Without the trace of a shadow on it. Life means all that it ever meant It is the same as it ever was There is absolutely unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind because I am Out of sight? I am but waiting for you For an interval Somewhere very near Just around the corner . All is well.
BERNARD LAID TO REST 13 th NOVEMBER 2007 / FAMILY FLISSIKOWSKI (LOVED ONES )
13th NOVEMBER 2007
IN LOVING MEMORY OF BERNARD FLISSIKOWSKI 1951-2007
Do not stand at my grave and weep I am not there, I do not sleep I am a thousand winds that blow I am the softly falling snow I am the gentle showers of rain I am the fields of ripening grain I am in the morning hush I am in the graceful rush Of beautiful birds in circling flight I am the star shine of the night I am in the flowers that bloom I am in a quiet room I am in the birds that sing I am in each lovely thing So not stand at my grave and cry I am not there. I did not die.
Amazing Grace
Amazing grace! How sweet the sound That saved a wretch like me! I once was lost, but now am found; Was blind, but now I see.
'Twas grace that taught my heart to fear, And grace my fears relieved; How precious did that grace appear The hour I first believed.
Through many dangers, toils and snares, I have already come; 'Tis grace hath brought me safe thus far, And grace will lead me home.
The Lord has promised good to me, His word my hope secures; He will my shield and portion be, As long as life endures.
THE LORDS MY SHEPHERD
The Lord's my shepherd, I'll not want; He makes me down to lie In pastures green; he leadeth me The quiet waters by.
My soul he doth restore again, And me to walk doth make Within the paths of righteousness, E'en for his own name's sake.
Yea, though I walk in death's dark vale, Yet will I fear no ill: For thou art with me, and thy rod And staff me comfort still.
My table thou hast furnished In prsence of my foes; My head thou dost with oil anoint And my cup overflows.
Goodness and mercy all my life Shall surely follow me; And in God's house for evermore My dwelling-place shall be.
YESTERDAY'S SONGS Written by Neil Diamond
Yesterday's songs Don't stay around long Not much anymore
Yesterday's words Don't make themselves heard Like they did before
Baby, yesterday's blues May be yesterday's news But the truth always stays the same And the good things will never change Like sayin' 'I love you' Sayin' 'I love you'
Yesterday's songs Don't seem to belong They're here and they're gone
Yesterday's moves Don't stay in the grooves They keep moving on
Maybe yesterday's rhyme Was for yesterday's time And the future's not ours to see But there's some things that always will be Like sayin' 'I love you' Sayin' 'I love you'
TURN ON YOUR HEARTLIGHT, ( NEIL DIAMOND )
Come back again I want you to stay next time 'Cause sometimes the world ain't kind When people get lost like you and me
I just made a friend A friend is someone you need But now that he had to go away I still feel the words that he might say
Turn on your heartlight Let it shine whereever you go Let it make a happy glow For all the world to see
Turn on your heartlight In the middle of a young boy's dream Don't wake me up too soon Gonna take a ride across the moon You and me
He's lookin' for home 'Cause everyone needs a place And home's the most excellent place of all And I'll be right here if you should call me
Turn on your heartlight Let it shine whereever you go Let it make a happy glow For all the world to see
Turn on your heartlight In the middle of a young boy's dream Don't wake me up too soon Gonna take a ride across the moon You and me
Turn on you heartlight now Turn on you heartlight now
BERNARD LOVED AND MISSED FOREVER
YOUR LOVING FAMILY. X
TO SWEET ETERNITY / FAMILY FLISSIKOWSKI
Life is but a stopping place, A pause in what's to be, A resting place along the road, To sweet eternity. We all have different journeys, Different paths along the way, We are all meant to learn some things, But never meant to stay... Our destination is a place, Far greater than we know, For some the journey's quicker, For some the journey's slow. But when the journey finally ends, We'll claim a great reward, And find an everlasting peace, Together with the Lord.
BERNARD AND MICHAEL
NOW UNITED IN HEAVEN
IF I KNEW........ / FAMILY FLISSIKOWSKI
If I Knew...
If I knew it would be the last time that I'd see you fall asleep, I would tuck you in more tightly and pray the Lord your soul to keep. If I knew it would be the last time that I'd see you walk out of the door, I would hug you and kiss you and call you back for one more. If I knew it would be the last time I heard your name lifted up in praise, I would video tape each action and word, so I could play it back for days. If I knew it would be the last time to spare an extra minute or two, I'd stop and say "I love you," Instead of assuming that you know I do. If I knew it would be the last time I would be there to share your day. Well, I'm sure you'll have many more, So, I'll let this one slip away. For surely there is tomorrow to make up for an oversight, and we'll always get a second chance to make everything all right. There will be another chance to say our "I love you's," and certainly there's another chance to say our "Anything I can do's ". But just in case I might be wrong, and today is all I get, I'd like to say how much I love you and hope we never forget. Tomorrow is not promised to anyone, young or old alike, and today may be your last chance to hold your loved one tight. So if you're waiting for tomorrow, why not do it all today? For if tomorrow never comes, You will surely regret the day, That you didn't take the extra time for a smile or hug or kiss. And you were too busy to grant someone, what turned out to be their last wish. So hold your loved ones close today and whisper in their ear. Tell them how much you love them and that you'll always hold them dear. Take the time to say "I'm sorry", "please forgive me", "Thank you" or "It's OK", and if tomorrow never comes, you'll have no regrets about today.
BERNARD WE PRAY TO GOD THAT YOU KNEW WE LOVED YOU SO MUCH, ALL OF US.
ST FRANCIS OF ASSISI PRAYER / FAMILY FLISSIKOWSKI
Lord,
make me an instrument
of Thy peace.
Where there is hatred,
let us sow love;
where there is despair,
hope;
where there is sadness,
joy;
where there is darkness,
light.
O Divine Master,
grant that we may not so much
seek to be consoled,
as to console;
not so much to be loved,
as to love.
For it is in giving that we
receive,
it is in pardoning that we are
pardoned,
and it is in dying that
we are born again
to eternal life.
ETERNAL REST GRANT UNTO BERNARD
OH LORD
IN LOVING MEMORY OF BERNARD / FAMILY FLISSIKOWSKI
If tomorrow starts with out me, and I'm not there to see, If the sun should rise and find your eyes all filled with tears for me; I wish so much you wouldn't cry the way you did today, While thinking of the many things, We didn't get to say.
I know how much you love me, as much as I love you, And each time that you think of me, I know you'll miss me too;
But when tomorrow starts without me, please try to understand, that an angel came and called my name, And took me by the hand,
And said my place was ready, in heaven far above, And that I'd have to leave behind all those I dearly love.
Then as I turned to walk away, a tear fell from my eye, For all my life, I'd always thought, I didn't want to die.
I had so much to live for, so much left yet to do, it seemed almost impossible, that I was leaving you.
I thought of all the yesterdays, the good ones and the bad, I thought of all that we shared, And all the fun we had.
So when tomorrow starts without me, don't think we're far apart, For every time you think of me, I'm right there, in your heart
IN LOVING MEMORY OF BERNARD
BERNARD UNITED WITH MICK 25TH OCTOBER 2007 / FAMILY FLISSIKOWSKI (LOVED ONES )